Choosing an Urn for Your Loved One

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Entering the selection room of a funeral home can be overwhelming after losing a loved one. The emotional significance is profound as families navigate decisions for a meaningful farewell. At Wing-Bain Funeral Home, we recognize the sensitivity of these choices, whether it’s selecting between burial or cremation services , choosing urns or caskets. Our devoted team is here to offer unwavering support during this challenging time.

Material

When selecting an urn, you’ll encounter a variety of materials, each with its unique characteristics. Common choices include metal, wood, marble, and ceramic. Tailoring your decision to your loved one’s personality and style adds a meaningful touch to their final resting place. For instance, a wood urn might be fitting for someone who cherished woodworking or had a deep connection to nature, offering a warm and organic feel. On the other hand, a metal urn may be preferable for individuals with a more modern style, and the added advantage of various color options allows for further personalization. Carefully considering the material aligns the urn with the essence of your loved one, creating a lasting tribute that resonates with their individuality.

Personalization

Consider adding a personal touch to your loved one’s final resting place by opting for urns with custom engravings. These engravings can include names, dates, or meaningful icons, providing a unique and cherished tribute. However, keep in mind that the customization process may extend shipping times and incur additional costs. A wonderful way to infuse personal significance is by selecting an item that held importance for the deceased, such as a tackle box, coffee thermos, lunch box, or even an ammunition box. This thoughtful customization not only honors their individuality but also creates a truly meaningful memorial.

Budget

At Wing-Bain Funeral Home, we understand that the process of selecting an urn is deeply personal, and we strive to support you in every way possible. Our extensive collection includes urns spanning a wide range of prices, allowing us to accommodate everyone’s unique situation. Our goal is to ensure that you can find a meaningful urn for your loved one without experiencing any financial strain. We believe that everyone deserves a dignified and heartfelt tribute, and we are here to assist you in navigating this aspect of the memorial process with care and compassion.

Style and Design

Explore a diverse array of urn options at our funeral home, each offering distinct styles, colors, and shapes. Consider choosing an urn that reflects your loved one’s passions and hobbies. Imagine a farmer commemorated with an urn resembling a grain bin, or a devoted gardener celebrated with one adorned with intricate floral designs. This personalized approach ensures that the final resting place is not just a vessel but a meaningful representation of the unique interests and pursuits that defined your loved one’s life.

Seek Support

There are many decisions to be made when your loved one passes, and grief can make this challenging.  Our experienced staff is here to support you through the difficult time, so don’t hesitate to ask questions. It may also be helpful to ask family and friends for input to help guide your decision.

Our staff is dedicated to helping you through each step of the funeral planning process, including selecting an urn. At Wing-Bain Funeral Home , we keep a variety on hand so that you can find the right one, but you are more than welcome to bring in your own urn as well. We encourage you to reach out to our staff if you ever have questions.

 

Helping a Grieving Friend: the Dos and Don'ts

By Wing-Bain Admin • 04 Nov, 2024
When someone is grieving, you may not always know what to do or how to help them. Each person deals with their grief differently and may need different things from those who support them. At Wing-Bain Funeral Home, we want people to get the support they need whether it is from our staff or from people in their personal lives. This list may be helpful when you’re wondering how you can help your grieving friend. Respect their process: even if someone’s grief journey does not align with your expectations or experiences, it’s important to understand that their coping mechanisms are different. Offer specific help: it’s easy tell someone, “Let me know if you need anything” but those who are grieving usually don’t know what they need. It may be more helpful to offer something direct, for example “can I get you any groceries?” or “are there any errands I can run for you?” Listen and be patient: allow your grieving friends to express their feelings without giving any judgement. Grief can be a long process for some, so be understanding and provide support when you can. Don’t rush or pressure them: there is no fixed time for healing, so allow your friend to take the time that they need. Avoid pressuring them to talk if they’re not ready, and try to comfortable with silence. Don’t disappear: being supportive to your friend even after the initial shock is gone and the funeral is over is important. The weeks and months following a funeral are often the hardest, and this when your friend needs you the most. Don’t compare: every loss hurts and each grief is different. Comparing situations can minimize someone’s pain and complicate their grief. Instead, try working on being there for them and allowing them to process things as they need. People never get over their grief, they just learn to manage it. They often lean on the people around them for support, and to give them the best support you can patience and compassion are key.

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