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The holiday season, often associated with joy and togetherness, can be particularly challenging for those grieving the loss of a loved one. At Wing-Bain Funeral Home in Granite Falls, MN , we understand the complexities of navigating grief during this time and are committed to supporting families before, during, and after funeral services. Understanding Grief During the Holidays Grief is a personal and multifaceted journey, and the holidays can amplify emotions of loss. It's common to experience a range of feelings, from sadness to numbness, as cherished traditions serve as reminders of those who are no longer with us. Recognizing and accepting these emotions is a vital step toward healing. Strategies for Coping · Set Boundaries: Acknowledge your limits and decide which traditions you can comfortably continue. Communicate your needs to family and friends to set realistic expectations. · Seek Support: Engaging with support groups or counseling can provide a safe space to express your feelings. Connecting with others who understand your experience can offer comfort and reduce feelings of isolation. · Create New Traditions: Consider establishing new rituals that honor your loved one's memory, such as lighting a candle in their honor or preparing their favorite dish. These acts can integrate their memory into your holiday observances. Our Commitment to Supporting Families At Wing-Bain Funeral Home, we are dedicated to assisting families through every stage of the funeral process: · Before the Funeral: We offer pre-planning services to alleviate future stress, allowing families to make informed decisions that reflect their loved one's wishes. · During the Funeral: Our compassionate staff provides comprehensive support, coordinating all aspects of the service to ensure a respectful and personalized tribute. · After the Funeral: Understanding that grief continues beyond the service, we offer online resources and referrals to local grief counselors and support groups to aid in the healing journey. We also co-sponsor Healing Connections Support Group with Granite Falls-LAH/BNP. To register, contact Shelly @ Healing Connections Aftercare. Additional Resources For further guidance on coping with grief during the holidays, consider exploring the following resources: · Holiday Grief: How to Cope With Loss During a Joyous Time · Coping with Grief During the Holidays: Strategies for Finding Comfort · Are you grieving this holiday season? Here are ways to cope with loss Remember, it's okay to seek help and take the time you need to heal. At Wing-Bain Funeral Home, we are here to support you through this challenging season with compassion and care.
Thankfully, making funeral arrangements is not an everyday task for most people. Because of this unfamiliar territory, there may be terms that come up that you may not understand. At Wing-Bain Funeral Home, we have put together a list of terms that are used in the funeral industry in hopes to help educate everybody. Final Disposition – This is the legal term for referring to what happens to a body after death. The common methods of disposition are burial, entombment in a mausoleum, or cremation. Honorarium or Gratuity – A gratuity is gift from the family paid to those helping with the service like clergy and musicians. However, some organizations, churches, or individuals may have a set fee for their services. Arrangements – After death, the next of kin usually meet with the funeral director to make decisions and go over service details. During this meeting you will also sign documents, select merchandise and discuss payment for services. Final Dates – The final date, which refers to the date of death, gets etched into the stone or monument marker at a gravesite. Typically, the cost of this is not included in the sale of the stone. Memorial folder – Also referred to as the funeral bulletin or brochure, a memorial folder is usually handed out at the visitation and funeral service. It can contain the obituary, pictures, poem/scripture, and service details. Funeral Coach – The modern term for a hearse, a special vehicle that is specifically designed to transport caskets. Casket bearers or Pallbearers – These are the people who help with carrying the casket. For cremation, they may be called an urn bearer. Honorary casket bearers refer to those who do not physically assist, but are recognized by the family. Casket Spray – The flower arrangements that sits on top of the casket is referred to as the casket spray. These often have ribbons that can describe the family relations like wife, dad, or grandparent. For those who choose cremation, varieties of urn sprays can be purchased to surround the urn. Obituary vs. Eulogy – These two terms can sometimes confuse people. An obituary is a general outline of someone’s life that typically gets published in the newspaper. A eulogy is a bit more focused and personal speech or story about the deceased that is shared at the funeral service. Vault/Grave Liner – Grave liners and vaults are typically required by cemeteries for burial. They are made of concrete, surround the casket or urn and are designed to bear the weight of heavy machinery that is used for cemetery maintenance. The difference between the two is that a vault is reinforced with a hard plastic liner and has a seal so that water cannot move in and out. A grave liner does not seal. Military Honors – Military honors for deceased veterans can include a rifle detail, playing of taps, and presentation of the flag. These are performed by the local Honor Guard unit Each veteran qualifies for different benefits, so make sure to bring in a copy of the discharge papers ( DD214 ) and the funeral director can assist. It is our purpose to give our families the best service. If you ever have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to our staff at Wing-Bain Funeral Home.
